The First 90 Days: A New Mom's Sanity Manual
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The First 90 Days: A New Mom's Sanity Manual
$34.00 USD
Sale price
$34.00 USD
Regular price
$54.00 USD
The First 90 Days
A New Mom's Sanity Manual
Not a Baby Book — A Mom Book
$54.00 $34 Launch Price
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60%
Felt less alone within 3 days of reading
The "someone gets it" moment
30%
Needed the full 90-day plan to feel steady
Consistency beats perfection
10%
Used the emergency resources chapter
We built hotlines in for this. You're covered.
🤱 New Mom Survival Rate: 94% — based on 200+ moms who made it through the first 90 days with this manual
For the woman who just gave birth and needs someone to check on HER.
Everyone asks about the baby. But nobody asks about YOU. This is the book you read at 3 AM while nursing, while crying, while wondering if you are doing any of this right. Written by a mom who remembers — who remembers the loneliness, the ache, the love so big it felt like it might break her, and the days she didn't think she'd survive.
🔍 Peek Inside
The 3 AM Sanity Check — Chapter 3's Emergency Tool
Use this when you're awake at 3 AM, the baby is nursing, and your brain is spiraling. It's not a fix. It's a lifeline.
1. Name What You're Feeling
Not "tired." Be specific. "I feel like my body is not my own." "I feel angry that my partner is sleeping." "I feel scared that I'm not bonding enough." Naming it reduces its power by half.
2. Ask: Is This True?
"I'm failing" — is that true? You're feeding a human at 3 AM. You're showing up. That's not failure. "My baby doesn't love me" — is that true? They literally cannot survive without you. That's love in its purest form.
3. One Thing You Did Today
Find one thing. You changed a diaper. You drank water. You survived. That's enough. Write it down if you can. If you can't, just say it in your head.
4. The Permission Slip
Say out loud: "I am allowed to feel this. I am allowed to not enjoy this moment. I am still a good mother." Permission is the antidote to guilt.
💡 Mom Tip: "I kept the 3 AM Sanity Check taped to my nightstand. On the worst nights, I didn't do all four steps. I just read them. And that was enough to get me to morning." — Emily A.
What this book is: A healing companion for the hardest 12 weeks of your life. Honest talk about postpartum recovery (no sugarcoating). Practical strategies for sleep, feeding, and survival. Mental health guidance that goes beyond "just think positive." Permission to feel everything you're feeling. Short chapters you can finish during a single feeding session.
Inside This Manual
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The Fourth Trimester What nobody warned you about
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Your Body After Birth The real recovery timeline
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Sleep, or Lack Thereof Surviving on scraps
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Baby Blues vs. PPD Know the difference — it matters
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Your Relationship After Baby It's not just you two anymore
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The Invisible Load Mental labor nobody talks about
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Five Minutes for Yourself Self-care that actually works
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Feeding Without Losing Your Mind Breast, bottle, or both — no shame
What You Will Learn
- How to survive the first 12 weeks without losing yourself
- What the "fourth trimester" actually means for your body, brain, and baby
- Realistic sleep strategies that go beyond "sleep when the baby sleeps"
- How to tell the difference between baby blues and postpartum depression
- How to keep your relationship alive when you're both exhausted
- How to divide the invisible mental load so resentment doesn't build
- Five-minute self-care ideas that don't require a spa day
- How to feed your baby — breast, bottle, or combo — without guilt
- Scripts for setting boundaries with visitors and unwanted advice
- A week-by-week survival plan for days 1 through 90
- When to ask for help and how to accept it without feeling like a burden
- How to reclaim your identity when you feel like you've disappeared
Chapter-by-Chapter Preview
- Introduction: This Book Is For You
- Chapter 1: The Fourth Trimester — What Nobody Warned You About
- Chapter 2: Your Body After Birth — The Real Recovery Timeline
- Chapter 3: Sleep, or Lack Thereof — Surviving on Scraps
- Chapter 4: The Baby Blues vs. Postpartum Depression — Know the Difference
- Chapter 5: Your Relationship After Baby — It's Not Just You Two Anymore
- Chapter 6: The Invisible Load — Mental Labor Nobody Talks About
- Chapter 7: Finding Five Minutes for Yourself — Self-Care That Actually Works
- Chapter 8: Feeding Your Baby Without Losing Your Mind
- Chapter 9: Visitors, Advice, and Setting Boundaries
- Chapter 10: The 90-Day Survival Plan — Week by Week
- Chapter 11: When to Ask for Help — And How to Accept It
- Chapter 12: You Are More Than a Mother — Reclaiming Your Identity
- Final Thoughts: Day 91 and Beyond
"I read this at 3 AM while nursing and sobbing. It was the first time I felt like someone actually understood. I kept it on my nightstand for 90 days straight."
Who This Book Is For
- New mothers in the first 90 days postpartum
- Expecting moms who want honest preparation, not Pinterest perfection
- Partners who want to understand what their loved one is going through
- Anyone supporting a new mother and looking for the right words
- Moms who had a hard birth, a hard recovery, or just a hard time
- Moms who are tired of being told to "enjoy every moment"
What You Won't Find Here
- ❌ Judgment about your choices (breastfeeding, formula, sleep training, co-sleeping — this book supports YOU)
- ❌ Perfect Instagram moms with white sofas and sleeping babies
- ❌ Advice to "enjoy every moment" (some moments are not enjoyable, and that's okay)
- ❌ One-size-fits-all solutions (every mother and baby is different)
"You've already spent more than $34 on nursing pads and midnight snacks this week."
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If you don't feel less alone, more understood, and more like yourself after reading this book, email us at contact@monbook.store within 30 days and we'll refund every penny. No questions. No guilt. (We practice what we preach.)
What You Get
📥 Instant Digital Download
• PDF file (read on any device)
• ePub file (for Apple Books, Kobo, and e-readers)
• 50+ pages of gentle, honest guidance
• Printable quick-reference cheat sheets
• Emergency hotlines and resources included
• Lifetime access — yours forever
• PDF file (read on any device)
• ePub file (for Apple Books, Kobo, and e-readers)
• 50+ pages of gentle, honest guidance
• Printable quick-reference cheat sheets
• Emergency hotlines and resources included
• Lifetime access — yours forever
🆘 Emergency Resources Included:
• Postpartum Support International: 1-800-944-4773
• National Maternal Mental Health Hotline: 1-833-943-5746
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
• Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 741741
• Postpartum Support International: 1-800-944-4773
• National Maternal Mental Health Hotline: 1-833-943-5746
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
• Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 741741
You Don't Have to Do This Alone
The first 90 days are hard. This manual makes them a little less lonely.
"Less than one lactation consultation. Except you can use this at 3 AM."
🚀 Start before tonight's 3 AM spiral begins
Instant download · Read on any device · 30-day guarantee
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a physical book or digital?
This is an instant PDF + ePub download. No shipping, no waiting. You'll receive the download link immediately after purchase to read on your phone, tablet, or computer — or print at home.
What if I'm not in the first 90 days anymore?
This book is for any mom who is still in the thick of it — whether that's day 10 or day 100. The chapters on identity, relationships, and self-care are relevant long after the newborn phase.
What if it doesn't work for me?
30-day guarantee. Not life-changing? Email us at contact@monbook.store, get your money back. No forms. No guilt. Even if you read it and still sob at 3 AM. (We get it.)